British psychologists muenster Buddha in the world specializing in unique "one love" issues. Recently, a person must be up to five years experience of research published in "Personality and Social Psychology" magazine, the following is part of the contents of the article:
"Unrequited love" than "two Acacia" is actually more common, it can be said that almost all adults have suffered the "unrequited love" other people or other people he was "unrequited love" or the bitter taste of embarrassment. 155 of 18-70 year-old men and women of the investigation confirmed that neither the "unrequited love" than others, and has never been another "unrequited love" were only 3 people, less than 20%.
Despite the "unrequited love" may occur in all ages, but 14 to 18-year-old a "multi-age", for the simple reason that the age group of adolescent boys and girls arrived, especially love fantasy, but not good at self-control. However, age over 60 years old, also from time to time will find that the obsession with unrequited love those. In addition, children under the age of 10, but also occasionally individual "silly" and "unrequited love" are.
In today's Britain, in after friends of the young men and women age, 60% of the people almost all the "unrequited love" someone had once accounted for 20% of the "love seeds", each year may be "unrequited love" of others 2-3 times . "Unrequited love" in all likelihood a warm, pure, forever memorable, but the "unrequited love" for one or outsiders, but it is ridiculous and laughable.
In today's Britain, every year about 100 million people, unfortunately, trapped in a "unrequited love" quagmire, and in the world, you may as many as 100 million people. Although it seems that women in people's minds more than men "love", but in fact become the "unrequited love" active party, the men much more than women because men's "sexual fantasies" are often more daring than women wild. "Unrequited love" does not cause serious harm to the community, statistics show that as a result of "unrequited love" leads to violence is extremely rare; directly triggered by the case than "the two fell in love" less.
"Unrequited love" of others is very poor, it is sympathy, but the "unrequited love" the other party, in most cases they would eventually develop to worry, even anguished. According to 200 was "unrequited love" men and women in the survey, up to 70% of people admit that at first he (she) did for its own "charm" triumphantly, but then gradually be ashamed of, worry, guilt and even anger of their own such as "mental imbalance" troubled.
Others in the "unrequited love" of the party (whether male or female) under 25 years of age most young people speak to each other "no" to be rejected, but more than 30 people are mostly "silent", with regret, is that this "silent" so often misunderstand each other, so that by the other side of the complex line into even more difficult to solve.
"Unrequited love" of the film culture in general is closely related to fan the flames. Eagle I do not know, now both in developed and developing countries of the film, perseverance and the pursuit of the man touched the woman's case finally abound, so people (especially men) have the misconception that life is so and do the same, the result was mistake the introduction of the "unrequited love" valley of death difficult to extricate themselves.
Married men and women "unrequited love" mode most of the affair: At first the two sides have the spirit of Platonic love, the surface is only good friends, but in fact one of them sprouted first love, and a woven entirely by their own feelings network quickly become addicted. But the other side may be played very calmly retreat drums, and either directly or indirectly to be rejected.
Fortunately, the "unrequited love" most "life" is not long. According to statistics, the average duration of each "unrequited love" the duration of only 36 days, it can be said is "short-lived." If you say "unrequited love" may also have a positive significance to society, that is, some of "unrequited love" inadvertently contributed to the party wanted to become. Such as Byron, Keats, Lermontov, Watt, Chekhov, Maupassant and others have had in their youth, "unrequited love" experience, but after the disappointment in love is sadness, frustration and despair, to promote They work hard and eventually became a celebrity.
Although the French were the feelings of the people of the world as a very romantic life of the nation, however, the population of France's "unrequited love" the proportion is much lower than the UK, even the United States. Some people think that an open society it would not be conducive to "unrequited love" the growth of the soil.
According to a recent survey, the first time people began to "unrequited love" has also become more and more of the age of small, experts have found only a 2.5-year-old British boy, "love" on the one next door 3-year-old girl, and has burst into tears, unable to eat any more appetite for food and drinks, of course, the other is unaware of this.
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